If you have to chase him, here’s the cold, hard truth: He doesn’t want to be caught. So get along with your life. Read books. Write a book. Empower yourself. Enroll to classes that you’ve been wanting to learn all along. It’s time to tap your creativity. Do some crafts. Write a song? Or study a second language. Do your best at work. Enjoy your life. Live! Let no man define you. Define yourself.